Last Saturday, I spent the day in Bunker Hill, Indiana at the Lighthouse! It is an organization of community members who work with at-risk youth in a number of ways to help them, teach them, and give them opportunities to just be kids and grow into good, productive adults. This group is fantastic! I love that their mission is to ensure that the youth, who will be the leaders of tomorrow, have every opportunity to learn to live good lives and have a safe environment to grow up in.
On Saturday, I was able to train them in a blended version of YOUTH Mental Health First Aid, my first blended class of 2021! First, they did a 2-hour, online series of pre-work before they came to class. Then, on Saturday, we practiced applying the ALGEE Action Plan in a number of scenarios and through activitties and discussions starting with identifying newly developing mental health challenges through identifying and helping youth get help when they are in crisis.
It was a wonderful way to spend a day training a wonderful group of people! The Lighthouse now has 23 certified YOUTH Mental Health First Aiders, ready to help the youth of their community in yet another way!
I am ready to bring Mental Health First Aid (adult or Youth) to your organization or business! MHFA@educationwellness.lorg
October 30th, last year, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer… not just breast cancer, but a fast-growing, invasive, triple negative breast cancer… one of the hardest types to have. In addition, she is over the age of 65, and the recommended treatments for this type of breast cancer are considered way too harsh for the majority of people over the age of 65. It was a tough year, but Mom is doing very well.
One interesting thing the breast surgeon who lead the cancer team said to my mom that first day, had little to do with the cancer treatment, although that is important. It was that Mom should not get upset at the amount of information, propaganda, advertising, and exposure that breast cancer gets from October 1st through about the first week of November, because October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. There are lots of activities and advertisements going on to remind us, to raise awareness, and to raise money for research… and it is ultimately important. As we found out in the next 6 month, that is so true.
Because of the impact that Breast Cancer Awareness Month has brought about, we now know much more about breast cancer, the different types of cancer, and that there are many types of treatments that match perfectly to many different types of cancers. We have been instrumental in the amount of money that has lead to massive research and development and the number of scientists that can work on breast cancer science. While triple negative cancers still must use the harshest of chemotherapies and surgical removal to have the most effective treatment, scientists have learned that other types of breast cancer don’t all even need to use chemotherapy, and testing has been perfected to be able to identify many specific types of those cancers.
It is simply amazing what Breast Cancer Awareness month and its activities has brought about. Essentially, please support breast cancer awareness month. what can you do? Of course, you can donate your time or money; however, you can do other things, so don’t think that is the only thing available. If you have no time or no money, you can still do something: There are so many other things you can do during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. How about some of these ideas:
Join or host a Relay team for one of the fundraisers
Host or take part in a Pink Ribbon Fashion Show
Take part in a breast cancer awareness lunch-n-learn program – teach or learn!
Pink Ribbons! – wear them, make them, sell them, pass them out
Neighborhood PINK Garage Sale Day – neighbors donate the proceeds
Make & Donate Caps/Headbands to a cancer center
Learn from any of the many Breast Cancer experts available
Provide pink cupcakes to a women’s organization, girl’s club
Write about your personal experiences – Share with others! try to balance the bad with the good.
Create a yearly workplace program or fundraiser for November – the sky’s the limit for these ideas!
Post your support for cancer patients and cancer survivors on Social media
What we all benefit from just may save your life, your mom’s life… your friend, your neighbor, your co-worker, your sister, your aunt, your girlfriend, your daughter, your granddaughter, your wife… November is Breast Cancer Awareness Month
Some of you recognize ALGEE, and some of you will get to know ALGEE throughout the next few years. ALGEE is a very special little Koala. He is the mascot of the Mental Health First Aid program and is a reminder of the 5-step action plan that you are taught in Mental Health First Aid courses. Thanks to all of you who have certified and have become mental health “first-aiders.” You rock and have saved many lives with your thoughtful interactions, questions, and suggestion to help people who experience mental health challenges.
For those of you who are not familiar with Mental Health First Aid: What is it?
Mental Health First Aid is a certification program on the same level as CPR and First Aid & Safety. It is evidence-based which means that it is grounded in research and practices proven to work. It is for the person who has not had upper level psychology education and who does not work in the psychological services on a regular basis (they already know all of this stuff). So…, basically, it is for the rest of us! The program helps us understand how common mental health issues are, how to recognize when someone might be dealing with a mental health challenge or mental health crisis, how to approach someone we might be concerned about, and how to help them get the help which could change their lives.
Anyone who understands both physical and mental health understands that the earlier we can get a person help, the more likely the outcomes will be positive; however the longer it takes to get help, the more detrimental a health condition can become. Yes, that includes both physical and mental health. In Mental Health First Aid courses, we talk about how to approach a person we suspect may be having difficulty and how to start a conversation to find out more. Often, we find that the person is not having issues or may have a difficult situation that they can handle quickly and be well. How would we know if we didn’t ask, though?
In my experience, if I ask 15 people about what I observe, I generally find that 2 people could really use some help. Most of the time, the help they need is minimal. They may need to talk about something to get it out or to try to understand something they are struggling with better. They may need to learn a way to relax in certain circumstances. Students may need to talk with an academic advisor on advice about a course. Veterans may need an outlet for their experiences that they feel they can’t talk with because others have not “been there.” There are so m any thing and so many people who have mental health issues (1 in every 5 people or more), and they may need to know that they are not alone and someone has noticed and wants to be there for them.
On the other hand, every once in a while, I ask someone about what they are experiencing, and I find that they could use the help of a professional in the medical or mental health fields, or a social worker, or even police intervention, if necessary. If they probably could benefit from treatment, but don’t realize it, as a First-Aider, I can guide them toward choosing to get help by offering them information and letting them know they are not alone in whatever they are struggling with. There are lots of kinds of professional help.
My favorite role is encouraging people to use self-help skills and learning all they can about their disorders. It helps to reduce fear and anxiety and gives a person a way to help themselves to some degree without constantly needing medical care. If you have read this blog for a while, then you know that I am a huge fan of deep breathing exercises. WHY? Because it works for me. When we talk about self-help skills, though, we have to realize that there are many and they don’t all work to the same degree in everyone. I do deep breathing and gardening to reduce anxiety. My neighbor likes to work and stay as busy as possible. A friend of mine loves using acupuncture to relieve stress and reduce depression. A great question a Mental Health First-Aider can ask is: What makes you happy? What do you like to do that helps you relax/cope/learn/feel free/or whatever the person needs?
Mental Health First Aid can be as easy as this: Hi Tom, I noticed (XYZ)… I was wondering if we could talk about it in private. I want to help. What happens next depends on what you learn.
Use the ALGEE action plan. If you do not know it, then please find a Mental Health First Aid course, take it, and get certified! Now that we can teach Mental Health First Aid completely online, in a blended manner (half online and half in class), or in our wonderful traditional in-person course, there is no excuse to not get certified. WE have certified more than 2.4 million people in the USA, and you could be next! Come join the movement!
Thank you for being out there and saving lives, ya’ll!
Do you want to take Mental Health First Aid or Youth Mental Health First Aid online? We can get you into a class! email us at MHFA@educationwellness.org to get details.
It is Mental Health Awareness month. Do you know someone who may need some help? The Novel Corona Virus – 19 (COVID-19) has put us in a position where people we know may be suffering mentally or emotionally. For many, social distancing means they will have to stay home, alone, for a very long time. Isolation is one the main causes of depression in many people, and social distancing may seem like isolation to some.
What can we do to help? First: Reach out to people who may be home alone for a long time. Check on them, and let them know that they can be in contact with others in many ways. There are many ways to communicate while social distancing: Phone, computer, signs… and my son would even say… smoke signals! We may not be able to be together in person, but we can still be together in other ways.
If you think that someone is suffering from depression, severe anxiety, or any other mental health issues, encourage that person to get some help. If you are the one who is having issues, make sure you take care of yourself, as well. Self-care is important… and can be done in many creative ways. Look out for others, but take care of yourself as well.
As usual, We will try to send a message or two, every week, during the month of May! We will get through this together.